With weekends of back-to-back weddings, I’m thinking about wuv.
and I have come to this conclusion: there is no such person as the ONE. When you are done collectively gasping, I will continue…okay…collect yourself, I’ll continue.
To think that of millions and millions of people, you can only be suited to one, is just naive. Now I am going to state that Hubby and I are pretty well suited for each other. I don’t want to brag, but we basically hit the weirdo lottery with each other. That being said, if I was hit by a bus tomorrow, I do not think that my husband would never find love again. In fact I have given him 3 pre-approved days of mourning before he needs to move on. Why waste time?
Only having one the ONE, soulmate, fated, intended, etc is not only limiting, it is daunting(what if you weren’t on your A game, and missed them???) Besides, to be a successful ONE to match with another’s oneness, you need to understand yourself first. What do you want? Why do you want it? What are you willing to put up with? What are your deal breakers? Will you try to be someone’s ONE in return? Phew!
You might have met someone who could have been your one but you made a different choice. Maybe you weren’t ready to commit, maybe he/she needed to be committed, maybe he was a mouth breather or maybe she laughed like a hyena, whatever the reason you passed on that one, you learned something, and you moved on. Now maybe you are with your ONE. Perhaps you have decided to be your own ONE. Maybe you can’t be limited to ONE. Whatever your situation, good luck and remember life is a result of choices, so regardless of your oneness, choose to be a happy ONE.
“Choose your love. Love your choice.” Thomas S Monson